my 23rd birthday

October 2, 2019

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23回目の誕生日

 

 

わたしがただ18歳のころ。始めたばかりのアルバむト先で䞀番お䞖話をしおくれた女の人は、その圓時23歳だった。明るくお、面癜くお、ずっおもチャヌミングな人だった。わたしもこんなお姉さんになりたい、ず思ったのを芚えおる。その圓時は、23歳になった自分なんお想像も぀かなかった。い぀かその時が蚪れるのは分かっおいたこずだけど、この自分が23歳になるなんお䞍思議、くらいにしか思っおなかったず思う。

 

When I was 18 years old, the woman who took care of me at my part-time job that I had just started was 23 years old at the time. She was cheerful, funny and very charming. I remember thinking that I wanted to be like her. At that time, I couldn't imagine myself becoming 23 years old. I knew that it would come someday, but I only thought of it as a  strange concept.

 

 

9月で23歳になった。今幎は倧孊を卒業しお瀟䌚人になっお初めおの誕生日だから、特別な感じがする。毎幎自分の誕生日が近くなるず、秋のあの優しい独特な銙りがし始めおくるから、ずっおもワクワクする。去幎はタむのバンコクで誕生日を迎えたから、秋の銙りじゃなくお、雚期のゞメゞメした空気が歓迎しおくれた。23歳になったけど、「残念なこずに歳をずっおしたった。」の負の感情じゃなく、かずいっお「歳をずったうれしい」の正の感情でもなく。なんおいうか、「い぀のたにか23歳の幎がきた」っおいう䜕ずも蚀えない感情。瀟䌚人になっお初めおだから特別な感じがするはずなのに、たったく歳をずった実感が湧かなさすぎお、ただただフワフワしおるんだず思う。

 

This September, I turned 23. This is my first birthday after graduating from university and becoming a working member of society. Every year when my birthday gets closer, I start to smell that sweet and unique fragrance that autumn has, so I get very excited. (Last year, I spent my birthday in Bangkok, Thailand so it wasn't the smell of autumn, but rather the heavy sticky air of the rainy season that welcomed me.) When I turned 23, I didn’t feel negative about it like “Oh no, I’m getting older” nor positive like “Yes! I’m older now.” Rather, it's an ambiguous emotion -- like, "23 came so fast." I thought it would feel special because it was my first birthday as a working member of society, but I don’t feel like I got older. it hasn’t hit me yet.

 

 

23幎間生きおきたわけだけど、最近匷く思うこずは、自分だけが歳をずっおいるのではない、ずいう事。圓たり前の事なんだけど、この間おばあちゃんの幎霢を聞いた時にすごくショックを受けた。もうそんなに歳をずっおしたったのか、ず思った。自分自身が成長しおいくに぀れお、い぀の間にかわたしがおばあちゃんの身長を抜かしおしたっおいるこずや、おばあちゃんの手がしわしわになっおいるこず、おばあちゃんの䜓に少しず぀䞍具合が生じ始めたこず。そんな事を思うずすごく悲しくなっおしたっお、今たでたくさん愛情を泚いでくれおいる分恩返ししないず、っおすごく思った。それはおばあちゃんだけにではなくお、い぀も支えおくれおいる家族や、友達にも。垞に呚りの人たちぞの感謝の気持ちを持っお過ごしおいきたいし、それをちゃんず皆に䌝えおいきたい。

 

I've been alive for 23 years, but what I feel strongly these days is that I am not the only one who is getting older. I know that’s obvious, but I was shocked when I heard my grandma’s age the other day. “She’s so old now...” I thought. As I grew up, I outgrew my grandma's height before I knew it, my grandma's hands wrinkled, and my grandma's body began to gradually develop problems. I felt so sad when I thought about these things, and it really made me think that I have to give back the amount of love that she had given me. And not only for grandma, but also for my family and friends who always support me. I always want to spend my days never forgetting my gratitude to the people around me, and I want to express it to everyone.

 

 

わたしは、昔は少し恥ずかしがりやで、お母さんから䞀歩も離れたくない、そんな女の子だった。だけど今は、自分の意芋をしっかり持っお、それをちゃんず䌝える事が出来るし、䞀人でニュヌペヌクに行けるような床胞ず匷さのある女の人に成長したず思う。䞭孊生の時に英語を勉匷するこずに興味を持ち始めたこずが、今のわたしを䜜るキッカケになっおいる気がする。英語を勉匷しおから芖野が広がっお、海倖の事にも興味を持ち始めた。もっず英語を極めたい、もっず䞖界のこずを知りたいず思っお、倧孊では英語を専攻した。倧孊では、LGBTQやフェミニズムなどずいった、わたしが孊びたいず思っおいるこずに関しお、ずおも協力的な教授や友達に出䌚えた。圌らのおかげで孊びたい事を充分に孊べる事ができお、自分の意芋もしっかりず䌝えるこずができるようになった。それにたくさんのプレれン発衚を経隓したこずで、苊手だった人前で話すこずぞの恐怖心がなくなった。いろんなこずの積み重ねで今の自分が出来䞊がっおいるっお考えるず、ただただ成長しおいきたいし、ただただ孊びたいなっお思う事がたくさんある。今の自分は倧奜きだけど、今の自分が「完成圢」ではなくお、もっずもっず自分をアップデヌトできたらいいな。

 

When I was little, I was so shy, and I didn't want to step away from my mom. But now I have grown into a strong woman who has her own opinions and expresses it, and has the courage to be able to go to New York on her own. I think that being interested in studying English when I was a junior high school student, was a big part of making me who I am today. Studying English broadened my perspective and I became interested in foreign countries. I wanted to learn more about English and learn more about the world, so I majored in English at university. At my university, I met professors and friends who were supportive of topics I wanted to learn about, such as the LGBTQ+ community and issues and feminism. Thanks to them, I was able to fully learn what I wanted to learn and speak my opinions. In addition, having to do many presentations made my fear of speaking in front of many people disappear. To think that who I am today is made up of little things that I have done, I realize there are many more things that I want to do to grow and learn more. I love my current self, but I hope I can keep updating myself, and not treat myself as a finished product.

 

 

誕生日の日に、たくさんの方からお祝いメッセヌゞをもらった。その倜にひず぀ず぀読んでいくうちに、やっぱり歳をずったんだっおいう実感が湧いおきた。果たしお18歳の時に想像した23歳になれおいるのか。それは分からないけれど、もし想像ず違ったずしおも、それはそれであの時の自分をいい意味で裏切った気がしお、栌奜いいじゃないかっお思う。来幎はどんな颚にしお、どんな感情で誕生日を迎えるのだろう。これからの1幎で䜕を孊んで、どんな颚に成長しおいくのだろう。想像が぀かない分、ずっおも楜しみ23歳の幎も悔いのないように、䜕事にも党力で楜しめたらいいな。たくさん新しいこずに出䌚っお感動しお孊んで、愛すべき人たちをしっかり愛しお、努力するこずを惜したずに、たたには息抜きもしながら、玠敵な24歳を迎えたいな。

 

On my birthday, I received messages from many people wishing me a happy birthday. That night, as I read them one by one, I started to feel that I really was getting older. Am I a 23 year old that I imagined I would be when I was 18 years old? I don't know the answer for sure, but even if it's different from what I imagined at that time, it feels like I betrayed myself in a good sense and I think that’s pretty cool. I wonder how I will feel on my birthday next year. What will I learn and how will I grow in the next year? I'm really looking forward to it, though I can’t imagine what it would be like! I hope I can enjoy everything in my 23rd year with no regrets. I hope that I will encounter and learn a lot of new things, really show my love to my loved ones, not hesitate to work hard, and sometimes take breaks, and be able to welcome a great 24th birthday.

 

Images by Mio

Edited by Kiara and Hikari

 

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